The Basics of Power Exchange: A Mini Book

This is a crash course in everything I know about power exchange. It’s 9000 words and should take the average person about 30 minutes to read.

The chapters include:

• First Steps: The Minutia of Control and Consent

• Translating Between Reality and Fantasy

• The First Steps Into Professional D/s

• Establishing Reason and The Subjectivity of Safety

• Rejection and Reflection

I made sure to use examples of what real conversations look and sound like to decisively illustrate some of the more ethereal concepts like negotiation, consent and communication. I also detail what I see as the natural progression of a professional D/s relationship. Everything in this mini-book is entirely informed by my experiences and style so it’s not a generalized guide. I draw from the questions I’m asked most frequently in my work with submissives. I use analogies and talk in detail about common mistakes people make when they are trying to learn submission.